Summer holiday childcare arrangements for separated parents

The school summer holidays may suit the smaller members of the family but for separated parents they can be a struggle – they don’t have to be.

Child access and child care arrangements during the holidays can be a thorny issue, especially during the long break from normal routines.

1. Make a plan early

An effective way to do this is to ensure children know where they will be and for how long, even if it’s tough to compromise.

2. Commit to dates

It’s even worth going through a calendar or planner for extra precision to remove doubt and ambiguity – it’ll be a huge relief when an agreement is made.

Don’t take the opportunity to address any perceived injustices in access arrangements.

3. Be open with children

Discuss their likes and dislikes and make sure they can take familiar toys and clothes with them, so everywhere feels a little bit like home

4. Remain considerate

If appropriate, encourage your ex-partner to plan some nice activities for themselves, so they stay happy and occupied

5. Consider mediation

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